Historian’s Corner

A Brief History:

The Order began on January 13th, 1886 in the New York City home of Margaret Bottome, a Methodist minister’s wife. Margaret was well-known for her drawing room talks, Bible studies and prayer meetings. Dr. Edward Everett Hale, originator of the Lend-A-Hand movement, had planted the idea for a “sisterhood of service” before Mrs. Bottome invited several of her friends to an organizational meeting.

At the January meeting were Mrs. Margaret Bottome, Mrs. Mary Lowe Dickinson, Miss Georgia Libby, Mrs. Theo. Irving, Mrs. Mary F. Payson, Mrs. C. DePeyster Field, Mrs. J. F. Ruggles, Miss Susan B. Schenck and Miss Helen Hammersley. Along with Isabella Charles Davis, these women made up the original Ten. Their church affiliations were Episcopal, Methodist and Presbyterian.

Mrs. Bottome was chosen President and served in that capacity until her death in 1906. Mary Lowe Dickinson was the General Secretary of the Order from the beginning until her death in 1914. She served as Editor of the Order’s magazine, The Silver Cross, from its beginning in 1888 until her death. The Hymn of the Order, “Lead Now As Forth We Go,” sung to the tune of “Nearer My God to Thee” was written by Mrs. Dickinson in 1887.

Mrs. Irving, an educator in New York City, suggested the name, The King’s Daughters. For the badge, a little silver Maltese cross was chosen. In the early days, those who could not procure a cross wore a purple ribbon to proclaim their membership.

The motto:

Look up and not down,
Look forward and not back,
Look out and not in, And lend a hand

represents faith, hope and service to others. The watchword chosen was In His Name and the text, Not to be ministered unto, but to minister.

The object of the Order is the “development of spiritual life and the stimulation of Christian activities.”

The Order unit was originally called a “Ten,” but was soon changed to “Circle” to accommodate the numbers of women wanting to join.

The founders were firm in declining to choose a work for each circle to do, rather allowing them to choose any work that involved doing good In His Name.

Hundreds of letters flooded the Headquarters office from women seeking information about membership and within a short time there were more than 50,000 members worldwide. In 1887, men and boys began seeking admission to the Order, and the name of the organization changed to The King’s Daughters and Sons in 1891.

The Order had a display in the Women’s Building of the 1893 World’s Fair where literature and badges were on display.

By 1896, there were Branch organizations in 26 states and circles in nearly every country in Europe, Japan, China, Syria and India. Canada had nearly 6,000 members.

Interstate Conferences, concerning the work of the Order, began in1897, but the first General Convention was held in Louisville, KY in 1912. Conventions continue to be held on even-numbered years. Central Council, composed of leaders of the organization, meets on odd-numbered years at Chautauqua, NY to conduct the business of the Order.

The Headquarters of the Order was based in New York City until 1972 when it moved to Chautauqua, New York where it continues to be today.

Photos: Courtesy Paul V. Gavin Library Digital History Collection, Illinois Institute of Technology – World’s Colombian Exposition 1893.

Stationery and Envelope from the Committee on Tenement House Work

From The Silver Cross, August 1892 –

Jacob Riis tells of suggesting a flower mission be started so that bouquets be sent to the “mites of humanity huddled together in filthy rooms.”  Money, clothing, flowers and toys came pouring into his office, and with no time or facilities to distribute them, The King’s Daughters stepped in to help. To show how desperate the conditions were in tenements, Mr. Riis shared these figures:

  • 38,000 tenement houses in New York City inhabited by 1,250,000 people
  • 160,000 of those were babies and children under the age of five
  • 40,000 prisoners are sent from these districts every year
  • One-tenth of the entire number of persons who died in NY were buried in the Potter’s Field

“The effort of The King’s Daughters to relieve some of this misery in New York is always in need of encouragement and aid.”  In 1892, Mrs. Ruggles, one of the Original Ten, was President of the Committee on Tenement House Work, and Mr. Jacob Riis was First Vice President. 

Sue Buck
Order Historian

Mrs. Irving’s Pin

This cross pin was worn by one of our Founders, Mrs. Theodore (Marie Louise) Irving. It was donated to the Museum by Florence Carhuff.

Mrs. Irving, one of the Original Ten, suggested the name “The King’s Daughters,” for the new sisterhood of service. Margaret Bottome said she “knew in a flash that was the name.” (from the Ladies Home Journal September,1897)

In 1886 when the Order was founded, Mrs. Irving was the principal of St, John’s Boarding and Day School for Girls on 32nd Street in New York City. The school was founded in 1873 by her husband, Rev. Theodore Irving.

 

Isabella Charles Davis described Mrs. Irving as “frail, dainty, cultured and spiritual, in look as well as in character. She always made me think of a white candle on the altar of the church.”

 

As I was polishing the little silver cross, I noticed Native American letters on the front and Matthew 23:10 on the back. With further reading, I learned that Mrs. Irving chaired the work among Indians in 1889.

During 1889-90, members of the Central Council split over support of an Order pamphlet written by Virginia Field calling for adherence to the Apostles Creed. Mrs. Irving resigned from the Central Council in 1890 but will always be remembered for suggesting our name.

Sue Buck, Order Historian

Founder’s Day

The Order began on January 13th, 1886 in the New York City home of Margaret Bottome, a Methodist minister’s wife. Dr. Edward Everett Hale, originator of the Lend-A-Hand movement, planted Mrs. Bottome with the idea for a “sisterhood of service,” after which she invited several of her friends to an organizational meeting.

At the January meeting were Mrs. Margaret Bottome, Mrs. Mary Lowe Dickinson, Miss Georgia Libby, Mrs. Theo. Irving, Mrs. Mary F. Payson, Mrs. C. DePeyster Field, Mrs. J. F. Ruggles, Miss Susan B. Schenck and Miss Helen Hammersley. Along with Isabella Charles Davis, these women made up the Original Ten and formed the Circle of Service. Their aim was to develop their own spiritual life and to be a blessing to those less fortunate. At that time, they had no idea of the far-reaching effects that fateful meeting would have.

Mrs. Bottome was chosen President and served in that capacity until her death in 1906. Mary Lowe Dickinson was the General Secretary of the Order from the beginning until her death in 1914. She served as Editor of the Order’s magazine, The Silver Cross, from its beginning in 1888 until her death. Mrs. Irving, an educator in New York City, suggested the name, The King’s Daughters. For the badge, a little silver Maltese cross was chosen.

In her recollection of that January day, Margaret Bottome said, “In that room on the 13 th of January, the first meeting of the Order was held. I seem now to see one dear little woman, almost angelic, as it seemed at times, who had a beautiful home of her own, yet, who said she had not sat in so much sunshine for a long time. Ah! She was in the eternal sunshine that day for she was indeed a beautiful daughter of our King.

The founders were firm in declining to choose a work for each circle to do, rather allowing them to choose any work that involved doing good In His Name.

By 1896, there were Branch organizations in 26 states and circles in nearly every country in Europe, Japan, China, Syria and India. Canada had nearly 6,000 members.

The Headquarters of the Order was based in New York City until 1972 when it moved to Chautauqua, New York where it continues to be today.

Marjorie Hughes from New Brunswick, Canada, in her book,The Original Ten, described the Founders of the Order as follows:

MARGARET MCDONALD BOTTOME
Margaret McDonald Bottome was the founder and first President of the Order (1886-1906). A woman of great faith and a spiritual leader, she set the standard for all members to follow. Prior to her involvement in the Order, Mrs. Bottome was the leader of the acclaimed Drawing-room Work of New York City for over twelve years. At these gatherings she spoke of Christ and the duty of women to follow in ‘His footsteps by loving and helping others less fortunate. For many years, Mrs. Bottome was a contributor to The Ladies’ Home Journal. Margaret Bottome believed that God founded the Order and that only as the Holy Spirit moved and inspired its members was the Order worthwhile.

ISABELLA CHARLES DAVIS
Isabella Charles Davis was one of the charter members ofthe Order and for many years was its corresponding secretary. In addition, she served the Order as business manager, treasurer, and one of the vice-presidents. From 1921-1922 Mrs. Davis wrote a series of articles, The Sm.llers, for The Silver Cross. These articles chronicled the early years of the Order. She traveled thousands of miles working for the Order. In 1912, Mrs. Davis presided over the first General Convention in Louisville, Kentucky.

MARY LOWE DICKINSON
Mary Lowe Dickinson, a student of educational and social welfare movements, worked’ as novelist, poet, essayist, and educator. A charter member of the Order, Mrs. Dickinson was the General Secretary of the Order from 1886-1914. She was the first editor of The Silver Cross, holding the office for twenty-six years. She was the author of the Prayer of the Order and the Hymn of the Order, Lead Now as Forth We Go. Mrs. Dickinson wrote the following statement about individual service: “You see it means a life work; for whatever other work we do, this work of personal helpfulness to one and then to another must be first, and must be the one work that never is allowed to stop.”

MARY LOUISE IRVING
Mary Louise Irving was the principal of a large boarding school for girls in New York City. As the girls were leaving school, she gave them the name The King’s Daughters. It was this name that Mrs. Irving suggested for the new Order. She remained in the Council fnr only four years. resigning in 1890.

FRANCES PAYSON
Mrs. Frances Payson was the first recording secretary of the Order. Her first contribution to The Silver Cross was printed in the October, 1888 issue and was entitled, “Advice in God’s World for Each Daughter of The King.” It included an acrostic of Scripture verses, the first letters spelling A King’s Daughter.

SUSAN B. SCHENCK
Miss Susan B. Schenck was a valued member of the Ceritral Council. Vv’hen the membership of the Order grew in such an astounding way that it became necessary to divide the work among the first group often, Miss Schenck was elected the chairman of the Committee on Home Missions. .

MRS. CORTLAND dePEYSTER FIELD
and
MISS HELEN HAMMERSLEY
Mrs. Field and her sister, Miss Helen Hammersley, were consecrated followers of our Lord. Mrs. Field’s first printed. message to the members of the Order was published in the first issue of The Silver Cross. Mrs. Field and Miss Hammersley resigned from the Council in 1890.

MRS. J. F. RUGGLES
There is no record of Mrs. Ruggles, except a statement by Mrs. Isabella Charles Davis explaining that the reason she said so little about her was that Mrs. Ruggles did not speak in public nor write for the first issue of The Silver Cross.

MISS GEORGIA LIBBY
For a number of years, Miss Libby and her mother boarded in the same house with Mrs. Bottome in New York City. She became so deeply attached to Mrs. Bottome that she filled the place of a daughter to her in every way. Soon after the founding of the Order, Miss Libby became its treasurer.

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